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How to Spot a Keeper

How to Spot a Keeper There is no fool proof way to tell if a relationship will work or not. But there are some signs that may lead you to know if your lover is for keeps or not. I believe that there is that one perfect match for each one of us. You wouldn't want to settle for someone else and then find the right one when you are taken, right? The right one is worth the wait. But you have to be smart enough to see the traits that make a person the right one for you.

You can be yourself

A keeper would accept you for who you are. You do not need to pretend or hide when you are together. We have to admit that we all have that certain weirdness or quirk that we do not want others to know about. But if you are with the right one, that person will not care but would even adore your uniqueness. If you feel that you are very comfortable with your lover and you are free to be your own self, then there is potential there. You just might have found your soul mate.

There for you

A life partner is someone who will be there for you through thick or thin. In the early stage of a relationship, a person's reliability can be tested during times that you need someone by your side the most. A keeper would always be there for you no matter what. If you feel important and special with the attention and the sacrifices that your lover does just to be able to support and help you with your needs, then you are one lucky person.

The Compromise

A good find is someone who may not agree with you about everything, but is willing to compromise just to make the relationship work. No relationship is without arguments or disagreements. But a keeper will always find a way to make peace and order in your relationship, even if it means he or she has to give up some things that they love doing. A keeper would even be the one saying sorry to you when you have a fight. This is not because he or she admits the mistake but it is because you are more important than his or her pride.

A Future Together

Another very distinct indicator that your lover wants to be with you forever is that when you talk about the future, he or she always includes you in the picture.All the plans that he or she has made have both of you in mind. He or she always considers your work place, your schedule and activities and plans everything ahead to make sure you both have time for each other. You also begin to talk about your dreams and your hopes together. And if love grows deeper and you are very sure of each other, you start talking about marriage, your future home and even children.

By Sheila Noreen Lopez - Gamo.

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