Keen On You - Dating, Relationships, Face Reading, Star Signs and more

Why Lovers Talk But Dont Really Communicate Anymore

Why Lovers Talk But Dont Really Communicate Anymore One of the biggest factors in the success of a long lasting relationship is good communication between lovers. The feeling of being understood by someone gives one a feeling of acceptance and belonging. To find someone who tells you his or her secrets makes you feel trusted and gives you a sense of importance to that person.

Many people fall in love with their partners because they feel they can tell this person anything and they can be who they truly are without any pretensions or inhibitions. Lovers should be able to speak to each other and share their thoughts as often as they can to keep their relationship alive. But sadly as time goes by lovers still talk to each other but don't really communicate anymore.

You've changed

Everything changes through time. No matter how well you know someone, there will come a time when you notice that he or she has changed and you don't seem to talk to each other the way you used to. This happens as you both mature and experience things that change your views and opinions about life.

Change is inevitable. We just have to accept that the courtship stage is over and even if you don't speak as sweetly as you used to, the most important thing is that you both still share to each other your feelings from day to day. The most important thing is that you never fail to tell your partner that you love him or her each day.

Nothing To Say

Most couples that have been together for a very long time find themselves eating silently together with nothing to say to each other. It is not because they are mad at each other. It is because they have been together for so long that there is nothing much to talk about anymore. Anything one says, the other has already heard before.

When this happens, the couple has to make an effort to spice up a conversation. Talk about a funny thing that happened at work. Or perhaps discuss something you saw in the news. If that doesn't work, maybe you both need a little get-away vacation where you can relax and start talking about your romantic younger years together.

I don't want to fight

One other reason for a person to stop talking about his or her feelings with a partner is to avoid an argument. To keep the peace in a relationship sometime we choose not to say how we feel anymore. Many couples end up fighting whenever they talk about their differences. The fighting gets tiring for them both that they stop talking about their feelings with each other.

This silence can be fatal for a relationship. Couples should be able to talk to each other about how they feel. What they need to change is the way you talk to your partner. Never confront your partner in anger. There is always a better way to say things. Speak with gentleness and love. Always remember that you are talking to fix any problem you have and not to make things worse.

By Sheila Noreen Lopez - Gamo.

Back to Dating

I Am Glad I Got Dumped

I Am Glad I Got Dumped

Nobody ever wants to get dumped. People fear rejection especially from someone they like or love. We all want our relationships to work...

Read More
Dating Troubles of the Brainy Girl

Dating Troubles of the Brainy Girl

The smart ones can smell a phoney a mile away. They are not into the courtship scenario where men are at their best and try to hide their flaws.

Read More
What A Girl Wants

What A Girl Wants

They say men are from Mars and women are from Venus, and that is why men have been struggling for ages to figure out what their women really want.

Read More
Love in Black and White

Love in Black and White

One thing about love is, we cannot choose who we will fall for. It goes beyond time or space. It goes beyond age and even race.

Read More
How Can I Start Dating Again?

How Can I Start Dating Again?

If you are single again, after being in a long term relationship, then brace yourself, because the dating game has changed so much these past few years.

Read More
Playing Hard to Get

Playing Hard to Get

Men fantasize more about women who are out of their league, rather than the plain Janes who would easily say 'YES'....

Read More


How To Move On From A Bad Break Up

How To Move On From A Bad Break Up

This old song never goes out of style because most people get to the point where they can relate to the lyrics...

Read More
Dating Tips for the Single Parent

Dating Tips for the Single Parent

Being a single parent does not mean, you have given up your chances of finding love and happiness. Yes, you have been hurt before or probably lost someone in your past...

Read More
Why Some Women Fall in Love With Gay Men

Why Some Women Fall in Love With Gay Men

For girls with a keen eye, it is easy to spot a gay man with the way they speak, the way they move, the way they dress and the things they like doing.

Read More
Love and Family Ties

Love and Family Ties

Once you commit and choose to spend a lifetime with someone, you also choose to accept and love everything about that person...

Read More
Is This Love? How To Tell

Is This Love? How To Tell

It is very difficult to define love in words because we can only truly define the most tangible things.

Read More
Fight Triggers

Fight Triggers

It is normal for couples to fight sometimes. Misunderstandings can be healthy. it helps you to discover your differences and be able to get to know each other better as time goes by.

Read More


Keen On You is a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for sites to earn advertising fees by advertising and linking to Amazon.com. Keen On You also participates in affiliate programs with Google Ads, CJ, ShareASale, and other sites. Keen On You is compensated for referring traffic and business to these companies.