Even the smartest people do some pretty crazy things when theyโre in love. ๐๐ Iโm not talking about the wild, criminal kind of crazy (letโs stay clear of that!), but the more everyday crazy things we often see happening around us. ๐ซฃ Check out the top 10 crazy things people do for love, and see how many youโve done so far! ๐
Spending lots of money on gifts ๐๐ธ
Of course, you want to make your lover happy, but sometimes splurging on material things to show your love can be downright crazy! ๐ต Sure, if you’re rolling in cash, why not? But if youโre not, you might find it hard to keep up with the lavish spending and end up disappointing your partner instead. ๐ Remember, love should be for who you are, not what you can buy! ๐
Switching to your partner’s music, food & clothing choices ๐ถ๐๐
Ever seen Runaway Bride? Julia Robertsโ character changed everything about herself for her partner โ but in the end, she lost her sense of identity. ๐ฌ While itโs normal to share some interests, donโt lose who you are by pretending to like things just because your partner does. ๐ก Be yourself; you donโt need to love everything they do to prove your love! ๐
Scanning through their social media accounts ๐ฑ๐ต๏ธโโ๏ธ
Itโs totally okay to check out your partnerโs Facebook or Instagram now and then. ๐ But scanning every post and analyzing who liked or commented? Yikes! ๐ Trust is a huge part of any relationship. ๐ If youโre constantly snooping, it might be time to rethink whatโs going on โ a little space goes a long way. ๐ฟ
Crying like a baby after a bad breakup ๐ญ๐
Weโve all been there. Breakups can be tough, and itโs okay to cry your heart out. ๐ฅฒ Every song, place, and scent can trigger those feelings of loss, but crying is part of the healing process. ๐งธ Allow yourself that emotional release โ soon enough, the tears will stop, and youโll move on stronger. ๐ช๐
Calling, tweeting, or texting every 5 minutes ๐๐ฌ
A few sweet texts or calls during the day? Cute. ๐ Bombarding your partner every five minutes? Not so much. ๐ This over-the-top behavior can often happen in new relationships. Hopefully, as the relationship grows, trust and confidence will, too, and you wonโt feel the need to check in constantly. ๐ธ
Getting a permanent tattoo of your partner’s face ๐๏ธ๐คฏ
It might seem like a great idea to tattoo your loverโs face on your bodyโฆ at the time. ๐ง But what happens if things donโt work out? ๐ค You and your future partner might not appreciate that permanent reminder of your ex. ๐ฌ Maybe stick with a less permanent display of affection? ๐
Dropping everything & moving to another city ๐๐
Love can make people do bold things โ like leaving behind a great job or moving to a city with a completely different climate! ๐ง๏ธ As romantic as it sounds, itโs essential to consider the long-term. Can you build a life together while also keeping your own? Think ahead before making those big moves! ๐บ๏ธ
Stalking your partner ๐ถ๏ธ๐ถโโ๏ธ
Jealousy can make us do silly things, like following your partner without them knowing. ๐ But putting on a disguise and spying on them? Now thatโs next-level crazy! ๐ซฃ Trust your partner, and remember โ relationships thrive on trust, not suspicion. ๐ฟ
Losing friends ๐ข๐
Sometimes your partner might be jealous of your friends, and youโre asked to choose between them. If you drop everything for your lover, you might lose some long-time friends along the way. ๐ But remember, true friends will be there even when relationships come and go. ๐ Donโt neglect your friendships โ theyโre just as important as your romantic relationships. ๐ฏโโ๏ธ
Getting married to a stranger ๐๐คฏ
Do you believe in love at first sight? Some people do, and they jump straight into marriage after only a few days. ๐ While it can sound romantic, marrying someone you barely know comes with risks. ๐ซฃ Itโs only a matter of time before the real person emerges โ and you might not like everything you see. Remember, love is about accepting both the good and bad in each other. ๐
So, how many of these โcrazyโ acts have you done for love? ๐ซ Donโt worry, weโve all been there. After all, love can make us do things that defy logic. ๐ But remember: love and reason should always be in harmony. ๐ง โค๏ธ While your heart may lead, donโt forget to use your head too! ๐
